After a scare on Thursday with a trip to the ER for another severe blood loss, I have gone on vacation to the oregon coast to hang with some of my dearest friends.

Go figure that I forgot to pack my phone charger so my phone is off most of the time, but I think that’s actually working in my favor to prevent stress. Therefore it’s just me, my peeps and the ocean. It’s perfect.

When I get home I’m trying to plan a blood transfusion with my doctors and investigate more options for my health.

Obviously, I don’t want to worry anyone. I’m still working on a fix but for now… I am really enjoying the sound of water, the company of people I love and knowing I don’t have to be anywhere today.

I will check in soon!

Yesterday, as I was going through my emails, I saw one pop up from Okcupid.com where I once upon a time had a dating profile and account. I thought it was weird that they would send me an email when my account was deleted – so I clicked on it.

Up popped a picture of a birthday cake with a solitary candle and the email read.

“Happy Birthday! Still Single? Come check out your matches and find the men who want to meet you for your birthday!”

Still single?

Really?

That’s their brilliant ad campaign to bring people back to their site? Remind people that they aren’t getting any younger and it sucks to spend your birthday single?

Well, fuck you very much, Okcupid. You can go straight to hell.

And where do I sign up for a new account?